5 Step Solo Sexual Healing Session

There is a HUGE difference between a run of the mill masturbation session and a sacred self-pleasure session.

 

Not that there is anything wrong at all with regular ole masturbation, but if that is all you have ever experienced you are very much missing out on the powerful healing aspects of your solo sexy time.

 

Solo self-pleasure has been a foundation of Buddhist sexual Tantra from the beginning. There are numerous texts in this tradition which refer to practitioners cultivating their “sexual fire” for advanced solo sexual practices which are referred to as “the inner yogas”.

 

There are a few things that differentiate masturbation from sacred self-pleasure.

 

A few examples are:

  • Intention
  • Time
  • Environment
  • Techniques used

 

 

Learn 3 primary differences between ordinary masturbation and Tantric self-pleasure CLICK HERE! 

 

If you yearn to dive deeper into the powerful healing aspects of solo sexual pleasure, this video outlines a 5 step process to start your journey:

 

 

 

#1 – Make the Time! Solo sexual healing sessions begin in YOUR Mind. You must choose to create the time and space in your life to devote to this healing practice.

 

We recommend literally scheduling in the time in your calendar. Make a date with yourself and give yourself the gift of undivided attention.

 

#2- Create sacred space! Creating a sensually pleasing, nurturing environment offers your nervous system the extra support it may need to relax fully.

 

#3 – Meditate before you masturbate! Ever have trouble focusing on sexual stimulation because your mind is going a mile a minute? Give your mind the opportunity to RELAX and get present IN THE BODY before you attempt to stimulate yourself.

 

#4 – Breath deeply! The Autonomic Nervous System plays a HUGE role in our sexual function and ability to respond to pleasure. If you are feeling tense or stressed your ANS will most likely be kicked into a fight or flight response. When the ANS is in Fight or flight, even just a little bit, your erectile tissue will not engorge and your sexual functioning will be impaired.

 

 

#5 – Follow the pleasure! A major difference between ordinary masturbation and Tantric self-pleasure is the goal. In Tantric self-pleasure, PLEASURE and connection are the goals. NOT orgasm. Orgasm is the body’s natural response to pleasure, so by focusing entirely on pleasure and your connection to yourself through pleasure, you automatically create an environment for healing to occur.

 

A few ways to experience more pleasure during your session are:

1 – Stroke your entire body (not just your genitals!) to find pleasure zones and focus on them.

2 – Slowly and gradually make your way to genitals, and instead of going right for your known pleasure zones, massage and explore your entire pelvis and genital area. You may discover new areas that had previously been “asleep” or that you had never explored before!

3 – Instead of rushing straight to orgasm, pause to relax and breathe throughout the session. A good rule of thumb is to pause, relax and breathe anytime you feel yourself tensing, or notice you are in your head thinking about something else.

 

We encourage you to use these 5 steps starting today and let us know what you experience!

 

Learn more about the sacred art of Tantric Masturbation a.k.a solo sexual healing sessions in our Tantra Mastery Training Programs!

 

Devi Ward Tantra Podcast
Written by: Devi Ward Erickson
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  1. I try to give myself a yoni massage once a week. I set the environment, soft music candles and essential oils.. Taking the time to caress the whole body is very important, I take my time on my erogenous zones that are mainly around my nape and use the gentle pressure I really love. Recently I also discovered the most unusual erogenous zones and all of this caressing feels luxurious, a real treat. Due to this weekly practice I became multi orgasmic, the chakras on my hands have opened and are full of sexual energy. Up until now I haven’t thought about it and will take your advice on adding a meditation to this practice. I feel so blessed to have accessed a bit of my divinity through my sexual energy, I can have orgasms without sexual stimulation. and I am loving every minute of it ❤️

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