Do you feel uncomfortable receiving oral pleasure?

do you feel uncomfortable receiving oral pleasure?

This week Devi answers a viewer’s question about how to feel more comfortable receiving oral pleasure from her/their partner. Receiving oral pleasure can be super vulnerable and there are many reasons we may feel uncomfortable allowing ourselves to receive oral pleasure as Lotus owners. We devote the rest of this message to passages from the […]

Your Cervix on Tantra!

your cervix on tantra

We’ve been talking a lot about the cervix lately, largely because there’s just so much to talk about! Until recently, our society has been largely ignorant of the important role that the cervix can play in experiencing our full potential for pleasure as well as human beings. The cervix also plays an important role in […]

Why can’t I feel pleasure?

why can't I feel pleasure?

Today’s message touches upon a similar theme as our conversation from last week, and that is the role that trauma/wounding plays in our ability to experience our full capacity for pleasure. Last week I spoke about the ENORMOUS potential for pleasure available in our cervix, and how that potential for pleasure may be diminished or […]

Why does my cervix hurt during s*x?

why does my cervix hurt during sex?

Did you know that as many as 75% of women may experience some type of pain during sexual penetration at some point? Although there may be numerous physiological causes for vaginal pain, an often overlooked cause of cervical pain is trauma, specifically trauma to the cervix. “Uncomfortable; Humiliating; Traumatic”… are words patients use too often […]

Are Cervical Orgasms Real?

are cervical orgasms real?

Your cervix is a potential wonderland of exquisite sexual sensation. The cervix is one of the few organs of the body to boast triple innervation, with the hypogastric, pelvic, and vagus nerve all contributing pressure-sensitive pathways to this erogenous zone. In fact, your cervix is even MORE densely innervated than your clitoris! How’s that for […]

Stoking your “Inner Fire” with self-pleasure

self pleasure tips

Self-pleasure tips for your “bliss pearl” (aka clitoral glans = glans of the penis)   “Cultivating the inner fire” is how mindful masturbation is referred to in Tantric Buddhism. Unfortunately the pleasure techniques themselves were lost in translation. That’s why we provide pleasure tips and techniques to help you realize your Buddha nature through shame-free […]

4 major nerve pathways that create vaginal & cervical orgasms

vaginal and cervical orgasms

Did you know that there are 4 major nerve pathways that innervate the pelvis for yoni owners and create both vaginal and cervical orgasms?!  This extensive innervation gives rise to over 15 different types of orgasms! You heard that correctly – 15 different types!  There are 4 major nerve pathways that create vaginal and cervical orgasms. […]

Tantric Secrets for Cervical O’s

In Varayana Tantra, the central channel is understood to be the CORE of the life force energy in your body and where enlightened consciousness resides. The Central Channel (aka Sushmna Nadi or Uma Channel) runs in a vertical line from the soft spot on the top of your skull, down the center of your body, […]

Can Tantra Heal Pain During Intimacy?

pain during intimacy

How can Tantra help heal genital pain during intimacy? It is estimated that as many as 75% of women will experience pain during intercourse at some point. There are a variety of interlocking issues that may contribute to painful or recurrent vaginal pain during intercourse also called dyspareunia. Many of these issues relate to nervous […]

Squirting vs. Female Ejaculate

The controversy surrounding “squirting” and female ejaculation continues! Most recently, researchers in Japan conducted an experiment to determine the source of squirting. The details of what they discovered can be found in the video below, but the long and short of it is – they discovered NOTHING NEW. As we have been teaching at IATE for the […]