Healing Karma With Sexual Tantra

healing karma

We had an awesome question come in regarding healing karma with sexual tantra, essentially, is this a thing that we can do?   And the answer is “YES!”. Keep reading to find out exactly why and HOW…   Tibetan Medicine, which is inextricably woven with Tibetan Buddhist Tantra, teaches us that there are 3 “minds” […]

Do you feel uncomfortable receiving oral pleasure?

do you feel uncomfortable receiving oral pleasure?

This week Devi answers a viewer’s question about how to feel more comfortable receiving oral pleasure from her/their partner. Receiving oral pleasure can be super vulnerable and there are many reasons we may feel uncomfortable allowing ourselves to receive oral pleasure as Lotus owners. We devote the rest of this message to passages from the […]

Your Cervix on Tantra!

your cervix on tantra

We’ve been talking a lot about the cervix lately, largely because there’s just so much to talk about! Until recently, our society has been largely ignorant of the important role that the cervix can play in experiencing our full potential for pleasure as well as human beings. The cervix also plays an important role in […]

How to reframe oral pleasure as a sacred offering of love

oral pleasure

How can I enjoy giving oral pleasure to my male partner? First off, we want to note that not all men have a penis, and not all people with a penis are men. Please substitute the word “he” for “they” in this video and know that this info pertains to all people with a wand […]

Is Viagra Bad for You?

is viagra bad for you?

Long-term use of Viagra has been shown to cause some harmful side effects. But is Viagra bad for you even in small doses? The video below goes into more detail but in short Viagra is best used as a small part of a long-term holistic wellness plan while focusing on correcting the underlying cause of […]

Why can’t I feel pleasure?

why can't I feel pleasure?

Today’s message touches upon a similar theme as our conversation from last week, and that is the role that trauma/wounding plays in our ability to experience our full capacity for pleasure. Last week I spoke about the ENORMOUS potential for pleasure available in our cervix, and how that potential for pleasure may be diminished or […]

Why does my cervix hurt during s*x?

why does my cervix hurt during sex?

Did you know that as many as 75% of women may experience some type of pain during sexual penetration at some point? Although there may be numerous physiological causes for vaginal pain, an often overlooked cause of cervical pain is trauma, specifically trauma to the cervix. “Uncomfortable; Humiliating; Traumatic”… are words patients use too often […]

3 Ingredients for oral pleasure excellence!

oral pleasure

There is a specific stage of tantric realization in which the manifestations of daily life become instruments of guidance, offering clarity and insight into the nature of the universe. This stage of development is referred to as “appearances arising as the Teacher”. This week, Bini and his new friend are our Gurus, giving us insight […]

How To Give Your Partner Cervical O’s

give your partner cervical o's

This video answers a viewer’s question about “How can I give my partner cervical o’s if my lingam isn’t long enough”? The most important ingredients for cervical orgasms are: 1. The engorgement of her erectile tissue and 2. Your connection!   In Taoist sexual reflexology, the cervix represents the heart – both the literal heart […]

What Is Tantric Sex? Part Two

tantric sex

This video is a follow-up to our previous conversation answering the question What Is Tantric Sex? Our first video outlined what Tantric sex is NOT. Haven’t watched it? You can find part one HERE.   In this latest video, I offer a brief description of how I practice sexual Tantra under the umbrella of Vajrayana […]