What’s the difference between sex and intimacy?
When talking about intimacy for couples, most heterosexual folks immediately think of penetrative intercourse. But sex and intimacy are not necessarily the same thing, and it can be very supportive for couples to know the difference! Intimacy is typically defined as feelings of closeness and connection to another person. Typically, in romantic relationships, INTIMACY is a […]
Buddhist Tantra Tips to Help You Communicate During Sex!
Did you know that communicating with your partner about your pleasure is actually an act of compassion? It’s TRUE! You and your partner WANT to bring each other pleasure, so the kindest, most compassionate thing you can do as a lover, is TELL THEM WHAT YOU LIKE! Then they can do more of that! Ongoing […]
Tantric Tips for Kissing
Have you ever experienced a kiss that made every cell of your body tingle and dance with joy? Thinking back to that moment, what do you notice about your state of mind and body? At that moment when your lips touched and your cells came alive were you; a. feeling disconnected? b. distracted by thoughts? […]
Tips for Staying Present in Your Body During Sex
Being present in your body is the #1 key to tantric intimacy… Presence must be cultivated and practised in every area of life! When we become present to our sensory experience, we become present in our bodies and are momentarily freed from our habitual thought patterns and our incessant internal chatter. When we practice conscious presence during […]
Healing The Toxic Legacy of Porn with Erotic Art Photography
Erotic Art has been part of the human experience for millennia. But there is HUGE difference between Erotic “Art” and mainstream porn. Join Devi Ward Erickson and her guest, visual artist and Photographer, Ricardo Scipio as they discuss the toxic limitations of mainstream pornography and the healing impact of Eros as an art form. […]
Let’s talk about Trauma-Informed Non-Monogamy!
Join Devi Ward Erickson and special guest Mel Cassidy, Creator of The Monogamy Detox, as they discuss how to practice non-monogamy through a trauma-informed lens. Find out: What is non-monogamy? Why non-monogamy can be traumatizing How non-monogamy can support healing & integration from relational trauma Somatic safety, secure attachment, and sangha Four Pillars of […]
What Are Some Gender Inclusive Terms for Sexual Anatomy?
Many of the terms used to identify anatomical body parts may have gendered connotations that may be uncomfortable or disturbing for people in the TGIQ community. While there are many gender-inclusive terms, please note that each individual may have specific preferences around which terms to use. Some individuals may like using the Sanskrit […]
Tantric Words For Sexual Anatomy!
The words we use to talk about our genitals/sexual anatomy matter! Words carry a vibration and can serve to connect or alienate. In Tantra, the words we use to describe our sexual anatomy are rooted in the understanding of the inherent sacredness of human sexual pleasure. Therefore, the words to describe these experiences are encoded […]
Great Sex Naturally with Dr.Laurie Steelsmith!
Join Devi and special guest Dr. Laurie Steelsmith as they discuss how every woman (and man) can have great sex naturally! Including questions regarding menopause, lube and intimacy with your partner. Find out some of the most common sexual health complaints, and how they can be effectively treated with natural medicine The most common […]
Sacred Kink and “Gender Stuff”
Devi speaks with special guest, Spiritual and Erotic Authenticity Educator, Lee Harrington, about Sacred Kink, the Bliss of Bondage, and Gender Issues in Sex Positive Communities. In this episode find out: How sacred kink has been used in religion and spirituality for hundreds of years What “sensual meditation” is Laws and concerns around kink […]