Can you practice Tantra when single?

Can you practice Tantra when single?

This week we answer a viewer’s question “Can I practice Tantra while single”? When folks ask us this question they are usually thinking of Neo-Tantra, which often portrays Tantric practice as more of a “couples intimacy exercise” than a several thousand year old spiritual tradition. But even Neo-Tantra has aspects of solo practice woven into […]

How to reframe oral pleasure as a sacred offering of love

oral pleasure

How can I enjoy giving oral pleasure to my male partner? First off, we want to note that not all men have a penis, and not all people with a penis are men. Please substitute the word “he” for “they” in this video and know that this info pertains to all people with a wand […]

Is Viagra Bad for You?

is viagra bad for you?

Long-term use of Viagra has been shown to cause some harmful side effects. But is Viagra bad for you even in small doses? The video below goes into more detail but in short Viagra is best used as a small part of a long-term holistic wellness plan while focusing on correcting the underlying cause of […]

3 Ingredients for oral pleasure excellence!

oral pleasure

There is a specific stage of tantric realization in which the manifestations of daily life become instruments of guidance, offering clarity and insight into the nature of the universe. This stage of development is referred to as “appearances arising as the Teacher”. This week, Bini and his new friend are our Gurus, giving us insight […]

Are Cervical Orgasms Real?

are cervical orgasms real?

Your cervix is a potential wonderland of exquisite sexual sensation. The cervix is one of the few organs of the body to boast triple innervation, with the hypogastric, pelvic, and vagus nerve all contributing pressure-sensitive pathways to this erogenous zone. In fact, your cervix is even MORE densely innervated than your clitoris! How’s that for […]

Can porn be part of your healing practice?

conscious porn

In most mainstream porn, the focus is on the short-lived, climactic male ejaculatory orgasm. i.e. the “cum shot”.From a trained Tantrika’s perspective that in and of itself is deeply problematic. Add to that the unrealistic sexual expectations that are engendered due to the visual modeling that most mainstream porn provides, as well as the propensity […]

5 Tips for a Solo Sacred Sexual Healing Session 

solo sacred sexual healing

Let’s talk about solo sacred sexual healing/self-pleasure sessions vs a masturbation session – because there is a huge difference between the two!  Not that there’s anything wrong with regular ole masturbation, but if that’s all you have ever experienced, you are very much missing out on the powerful healing aspects of your solo sexy time.  Solo self-pleasure […]

Tantric Secrets for Cervical O’s

In Varayana Tantra, the central channel is understood to be the CORE of the life force energy in your body and where enlightened consciousness resides. The Central Channel (aka Sushmna Nadi or Uma Channel) runs in a vertical line from the soft spot on the top of your skull, down the center of your body, […]

Buddhist Tantra Tips to Help You Communicate During Sex!

communicate during sex

Did you know that communicating with your partner about your pleasure is actually an act of compassion?  It’s TRUE! You and your partner WANT to bring each other pleasure, so the kindest, most compassionate thing you can do as a lover, is TELL THEM WHAT YOU LIKE!  Then they can do more of that! Ongoing […]

Tantric Tips for Kissing

Have you ever experienced a kiss that made every cell of your body tingle and dance with joy? Thinking back to that moment, what do you notice about your state of mind and body? At that moment when your lips touched and your cells came alive were you; a. feeling disconnected? b. distracted by thoughts? […]