Can you practice Tantra when single?

Can you practice Tantra when single?

This week we answer a viewer’s question “Can I practice Tantra while single”? When folks ask us this question they are usually thinking of Neo-Tantra, which often portrays Tantric practice as more of a “couples intimacy exercise” than a several thousand year old spiritual tradition. But even Neo-Tantra has aspects of solo practice woven into […]

Hysterectomy and orgasm

hysterectomy and orgasm

Tantric Sexology 101 Q&A – Can I still have cervical orgasms after hysterectomy?   This is a very common question for many yoni owners who have had a hysterectomy, and there is no easy answer to this.   As I explain in the video below the type/flavors of orgasm that you are able to exerience […]

Black Men and Prostate Cancer: Prevention Is The Best Medicine!

black men and prostate cancer

According to the advocacy organization ZERO Prostate Cancer, one in six Black men will develop prostate cancer in their lifetime. Research from the American Cancer Society shows Black men are more than twice as likely to die from the disease than other demographics. Research has shown us that unresolved trauma, usually in the form of […]

3 REASONS TO HEAL SEXUAL TRAUMA WITH TANTRA

heal sexual trauma with tantra

1 – A BLOCK IN SEXUALITY IS A BLOCK EVERYWHERE… Most don’t realize how extensively sexual trauma and repression affects our everyday experience. Any degree of trauma or even harboring negative thoughts around sexual energy and behavior affects our ability to trust and connect with others. On a primitive level, sexual energy is a natural […]

Healing Karma With Sexual Tantra

healing karma

We had an awesome question come in regarding healing karma with sexual tantra, essentially, is this a thing that we can do?   And the answer is “YES!”. Keep reading to find out exactly why and HOW…   Tibetan Medicine, which is inextricably woven with Tibetan Buddhist Tantra, teaches us that there are 3 “minds” […]

Do you feel uncomfortable receiving oral pleasure?

do you feel uncomfortable receiving oral pleasure?

This week Devi answers a viewer’s question about how to feel more comfortable receiving oral pleasure from her/their partner. Receiving oral pleasure can be super vulnerable and there are many reasons we may feel uncomfortable allowing ourselves to receive oral pleasure as Lotus owners. We devote the rest of this message to passages from the […]

Your Cervix on Tantra!

your cervix on tantra

We’ve been talking a lot about the cervix lately, largely because there’s just so much to talk about! Until recently, our society has been largely ignorant of the important role that the cervix can play in experiencing our full potential for pleasure as well as human beings. The cervix also plays an important role in […]

How to reframe oral pleasure as a sacred offering of love

oral pleasure

How can I enjoy giving oral pleasure to my male partner? First off, we want to note that not all men have a penis, and not all people with a penis are men. Please substitute the word “he” for “they” in this video and know that this info pertains to all people with a wand […]

Why can’t I feel pleasure?

why can't I feel pleasure?

Today’s message touches upon a similar theme as our conversation from last week, and that is the role that trauma/wounding plays in our ability to experience our full capacity for pleasure. Last week I spoke about the ENORMOUS potential for pleasure available in our cervix, and how that potential for pleasure may be diminished or […]

Why does my cervix hurt during s*x?

why does my cervix hurt during sex?

Did you know that as many as 75% of women may experience some type of pain during sexual penetration at some point? Although there may be numerous physiological causes for vaginal pain, an often overlooked cause of cervical pain is trauma, specifically trauma to the cervix. “Uncomfortable; Humiliating; Traumatic”… are words patients use too often […]