Why does my cervix hurt during s*x?

why does my cervix hurt during sex?

Did you know that as many as 75% of women may experience some type of pain during sexual penetration at some point? Although there may be numerous physiological causes for vaginal pain, an often overlooked cause of cervical pain is trauma, specifically trauma to the cervix. “Uncomfortable; Humiliating; Traumatic”… are words patients use too often […]

3 Ingredients for oral pleasure excellence!

oral pleasure

There is a specific stage of tantric realization in which the manifestations of daily life become instruments of guidance, offering clarity and insight into the nature of the universe. This stage of development is referred to as “appearances arising as the Teacher”. This week, Bini and his new friend are our Gurus, giving us insight […]

How To Give Your Partner Cervical O’s

give your partner cervical o's

This video answers a viewer’s question about “How can I give my partner cervical o’s if my lingam isn’t long enough”? The most important ingredients for cervical orgasms are: 1. The engorgement of her erectile tissue and 2. Your connection!   In Taoist sexual reflexology, the cervix represents the heart – both the literal heart […]

What Is Tantric Sex? Part Two

tantric sex

This video is a follow-up to our previous conversation answering the question What Is Tantric Sex? Our first video outlined what Tantric sex is NOT. Haven’t watched it? You can find part one HERE.   In this latest video, I offer a brief description of how I practice sexual Tantra under the umbrella of Vajrayana […]

Can you heal sexual trauma with Tantra?

heal sexual trauma

Sexual energy is quite literally life-force energy! It is the very cause of our existence in human form. All human bodies on this planet originated from some sort of sexual activity. The Vajrayana Tantric tradition teaches that every orgasm is a glimpse of enlightenment, and the purpose of sexual tantra is to extend that orgasmic […]

Can porn be part of your healing practice?

conscious porn

In most mainstream porn, the focus is on the short-lived, climactic male ejaculatory orgasm. i.e. the “cum shot”.From a trained Tantrika’s perspective that in and of itself is deeply problematic. Add to that the unrealistic sexual expectations that are engendered due to the visual modeling that most mainstream porn provides, as well as the propensity […]

5 Tips for a Solo Sacred Sexual Healing Session 

solo sacred sexual healing

Let’s talk about solo sacred sexual healing/self-pleasure sessions vs a masturbation session – because there is a huge difference between the two!  Not that there’s anything wrong with regular ole masturbation, but if that’s all you have ever experienced, you are very much missing out on the powerful healing aspects of your solo sexy time.  Solo self-pleasure […]

Buddhist Tantra Tips to Help You Communicate During Sex!

communicate during sex

Did you know that communicating with your partner about your pleasure is actually an act of compassion?  It’s TRUE! You and your partner WANT to bring each other pleasure, so the kindest, most compassionate thing you can do as a lover, is TELL THEM WHAT YOU LIKE!  Then they can do more of that! Ongoing […]

Healing Vaginal Pain with Tantra

healing vaginal pain

Devi shares how to use Tantric mindfulness to antidote and resolve vaginal pain during intercourse! Sexual intimacy is one of the most profoundly pleasurable experiences we can have as human beings. But what happens when sex becomes painful or has always been painful? Many people who experience vaginal pain may feel isolated, alone, and “broken”, […]

Tantric Tips for Kissing

Have you ever experienced a kiss that made every cell of your body tingle and dance with joy? Thinking back to that moment, what do you notice about your state of mind and body? At that moment when your lips touched and your cells came alive were you; a. feeling disconnected? b. distracted by thoughts? […]