Is Viagra Bad for You?

is viagra bad for you?

Long-term use of Viagra has been shown to cause some harmful side effects. But is Viagra bad for you even in small doses? The video below goes into more detail but in short Viagra is best used as a small part of a long-term holistic wellness plan while focusing on correcting the underlying cause of […]

Have you heard of The Yogini Tantra?

Yogini Tantra

The topic of whether or not, (or even how much!) sex is included in classical or traditional tantra is the subject of many online arguments. We receive a large amount of criticism for talking openly and often about human sexual function while having the audacity to refer to our work as “Authentic Tantra”. We note […]

3 Ingredients for oral pleasure excellence!

oral pleasure

There is a specific stage of tantric realization in which the manifestations of daily life become instruments of guidance, offering clarity and insight into the nature of the universe. This stage of development is referred to as “appearances arising as the Teacher”. This week, Bini and his new friend are our Gurus, giving us insight […]

How To Give Your Partner Cervical O’s

give your partner cervical o's

This video answers a viewer’s question about “How can I give my partner cervical o’s if my lingam isn’t long enough”? The most important ingredients for cervical orgasms are: 1. The engorgement of her erectile tissue and 2. Your connection!   In Taoist sexual reflexology, the cervix represents the heart – both the literal heart […]

What Is Tantric Sex? Part Two

tantric sex

This video is a follow-up to our previous conversation answering the question What Is Tantric Sex? Our first video outlined what Tantric sex is NOT. Haven’t watched it? You can find part one HERE.   In this latest video, I offer a brief description of how I practice sexual Tantra under the umbrella of Vajrayana […]

The Nourishment of Play

Nourishment of play

Mammals are wired for play. In fact, play which allows us to make eye contact and read each other’s relaxed and joyful facial features is one way the ventral vagal pathway is stimulated. Our dear Certified Instructor, Laurie McCracken shot this video of me and Bini playing in the waves together. Bini is one of […]

What’s The Difference Between “No Nut” vs Tantric Semen Retention?

No Nut November and Tantric Semen Retention

We’re a little late to the party but we’d like to close out “No Nut November” with some Tantric wisdom i.e. discernment 🙂 An uncommonly known fact about “nut” is that orgasm and ejaculation are actually TWO separate functions of the nervous system. This means that “nutting” is NOT required for you to experience awesome, […]

Are Cervical Orgasms Real?

are cervical orgasms real?

Your cervix is a potential wonderland of exquisite sexual sensation. The cervix is one of the few organs of the body to boast triple innervation, with the hypogastric, pelvic, and vagus nerve all contributing pressure-sensitive pathways to this erogenous zone. In fact, your cervix is even MORE densely innervated than your clitoris! How’s that for […]

Stoking your “Inner Fire” with self-pleasure

self pleasure tips

Self-pleasure tips for your “bliss pearl” (aka clitoral glans = glans of the penis)   “Cultivating the inner fire” is how mindful masturbation is referred to in Tantric Buddhism. Unfortunately the pleasure techniques themselves were lost in translation. That’s why we provide pleasure tips and techniques to help you realize your Buddha nature through shame-free […]

4 major nerve pathways that create vaginal & cervical orgasms

vaginal and cervical orgasms

Did you know that there are 4 major nerve pathways that innervate the pelvis for yoni owners and create both vaginal and cervical orgasms?!  This extensive innervation gives rise to over 15 different types of orgasms! You heard that correctly – 15 different types!  There are 4 major nerve pathways that create vaginal and cervical orgasms. […]