Cultivating Bodhichitta by Benefiting Living Beings
Did you know you can cultivate Bodhichitta by benefitting other living beings in your environment? For example, look at the size of this Gecko! Typically Geckos are cute little tiny lizards that run around on your walls. I almost peed my pants when I saw the size of THIS Gecko! Geeze! (see video below) […]
What Is Tantric Sex? Part Two
This video is a follow-up to our previous conversation answering the question What Is Tantric Sex? Our first video outlined what Tantric sex is NOT. Haven’t watched it? You can find part one HERE. In this latest video, I offer a brief description of how I practice sexual Tantra under the umbrella of Vajrayana […]
The Nourishment of Play
Mammals are wired for play. In fact, play which allows us to make eye contact and read each other’s relaxed and joyful facial features is one way the ventral vagal pathway is stimulated. Our dear Certified Instructor, Laurie McCracken shot this video of me and Bini playing in the waves together. Bini is one of […]
What’s The Difference Between “No Nut” vs Tantric Semen Retention?
We’re a little late to the party but we’d like to close out “No Nut November” with some Tantric wisdom i.e. discernment 🙂 An uncommonly known fact about “nut” is that orgasm and ejaculation are actually TWO separate functions of the nervous system. This means that “nutting” is NOT required for you to experience awesome, […]
Can Tantra Heal Our Society?
There is no escaping the upheaval and unrest occurring in the world today. Some days it truly seems as though hatred and ignorance are achieving the upper hand and my heart aches for the lack of humanity we witness on a daily basis by those in power around the world. There is a notable absence […]
Are Cervical Orgasms Real?
Your cervix is a potential wonderland of exquisite sexual sensation. The cervix is one of the few organs of the body to boast triple innervation, with the hypogastric, pelvic, and vagus nerve all contributing pressure-sensitive pathways to this erogenous zone. In fact, your cervix is even MORE densely innervated than your clitoris! How’s that for […]
Stoking your “Inner Fire” with self-pleasure
Self-pleasure tips for your “bliss pearl” (aka clitoral glans = glans of the penis) “Cultivating the inner fire” is how mindful masturbation is referred to in Tantric Buddhism. Unfortunately the pleasure techniques themselves were lost in translation. That’s why we provide pleasure tips and techniques to help you realize your Buddha nature through shame-free […]
4 major nerve pathways that create vaginal & cervical orgasms
Did you know that there are 4 major nerve pathways that innervate the pelvis for yoni owners and create both vaginal and cervical orgasms?! This extensive innervation gives rise to over 15 different types of orgasms! You heard that correctly – 15 different types! There are 4 major nerve pathways that create vaginal and cervical orgasms. […]
A Tantric Practice for Healing Genital Shame
Our natural relationship with our bodies is one of wonder, curiosity & magic. Genital shame is not something we are born with. It’s something that is passed on and imposed upon us. This shame cuts us off from our own bodies and the inherent wisdom which resides within each of us. Being cut off from our […]
Can porn be part of your healing practice?
In most mainstream porn, the focus is on the short-lived, climactic male ejaculatory orgasm. i.e. the “cum shot”.From a trained Tantrika’s perspective that in and of itself is deeply problematic. Add to that the unrealistic sexual expectations that are engendered due to the visual modeling that most mainstream porn provides, as well as the propensity […]