do you feel uncomfortable receiving oral pleasure?

Do you feel uncomfortable receiving oral pleasure?

This week Devi answers a viewer’s question about how to feel more comfortable receiving oral pleasure from her/their partner.

Receiving oral pleasure can be super vulnerable and there are many reasons we may feel uncomfortable allowing ourselves to receive oral pleasure as Lotus owners.

We devote the rest of this message to passages from the Candamaharosana Tantra 

“Take refuge in the yoni of an esteemed woman….”

“Women are heaven, women are the Dharma,
And women are truly the supreme austerity.
Women are the Buddha, women are the Saṅgha,
Women are the Perfection of Wisdom” (CMT, 8.14)

“She should have him suck her Lotus and show his pleasure.
Inhaling the fragrance, he should enter with his tongue, searching for the Red and White secretions.
Then she should say to him: Eat my essence! Drink the Waters of Release! OSon, be a slave as well as a father and a lover. This is the best diet, eaten by all Buddhas.”

“The man sees the woman as a goddess.
The woman sees the man as a god.
By joining the diamond scepter and lotus,they should make sacrifices to each other.
There is no worship apart from this.(CMT, 10.9)


Instructions from Vajrayogini herself…

“Kissing and embracing, he should always worship Vajrayogini physically if he can, or mentally and verbally if he cannot. The aspirant who satisfies me wins the supreme attainment.
I am identical to the bodies of all women and there is no way that I can be worshipped except by the worship of women.”

“Constantly take refuge at my feet, my dear …Be gracious, beloved, and give me pleasure with your diamond scepter. Look at my three-petaled lotus, its center adorned with a stamen. It is a Buddha paradise, adorned with a red Buddha, A cosmic mother who bestows bliss and tranquility on the passionate. Abandon all conceptual thought and unite with my reclining form;”

“Place my feet upon your shoulders and look me up and down. Make the fully awakened scepter enter the opening in the center of the lotus. Move a hundred, thousand, hundred thousand times in my three-petaled lotus of swollen flesh.”


So as Devi says in the video – help your partner out on their path to enlightenment by allowing them to lavish your lotus and worship at your temple, according to the instructions of the Vajrayogini herself!


Watch the video below for more!

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