Tantra Articles + Videos

How does male circumcision affect female sexual health?

October 5, 2018 3 Comments

Contrary to conventional opinion, the male foreskin is much more than a disposable flap of skin. Boasting as many as 20,000 nerve endings, this special area is actually the most sensitive and pleasurable part of male sexual anatomy. Along with being highly pleasurable, the …

How Tantra Can Heal Rape Culture

September 20, 2018 5 Comments

I originally wrote this article in 2013, the year of the Steubenville High School rape case here in the United States, and more than one brutal rape case occurring in India. I published it again in June 2017. Now, 5+ years later, I continue to make ...

Activating Your Sexual Archetypes

September 7, 2018 No Comments

Have you ever wondered what your personal archetype is? Archetype is defined as “a recurrent symbol or motif in literature, art, or mythology.” According to Psychotherapist, Carl Golden, “Carl Gustav Jung, used the concept of archetype in his theory of the human psyche. He believed that ...

3 Ways to Use Porn as Medicine!

August 17, 2018 5 Comments

Pornography use is a controversial topic and one that I have had mixed feelings about over the years. On one hand, there are certain types of mainstream porn that promote what I consider to be “unhealthy” sexual habits and dynamics. On the other hand, I ...

3 Differences Between Masturbation and Self-Pleasure

August 10, 2018 3 Comments

A while back I read an article that described the differences between how men fantasize about cis-gender women masturbating, and how most cis-gender women actually do masturbate. The author (a cis-gender woman) described her masturbation practice as a somewhat haphazard, fast and furtive process. Her ...

The Shadow Side to Monogamy

August 3, 2018 No Comments

For all its good— sense of security, continuity, deep knowing of your partner— there’s a mythos and fairytale ideal that society encourages us to follow around monogamy, one which can leave us feeling broken in our relationships like a record stuck on repeat. We keep ...

3 Ways to Cultivate A Tantric Partnership

July 27, 2018 2 Comments

My husband and I were having a spontaneous Tantra playdate earlier this week, which consisted of a long walk by the beach connecting with the elements, dinner at one of our favorite seafood restaurants overlooking the ocean, and finished off with some sensual sexy time ...

The harmful impact of demonizing male sexuality

July 20, 2018 7 Comments

We are living in a time of turmoil and change. In the US, the current occupant of the white house is a blustering example of toxic masculinity. Our planet and the occupants of the planet have suffered for thousands of years under a violent patriarchal ...

Why it takes a village to heal

July 13, 2018 No Comments

One of my favorite trauma healing experts, Dr. Peter Levine, talks about the necessity of community to effectively heal trauma in the individual. He describes an experience he had in South America in which one of the female members of the tribe suffered the traumatic ...

The Sacred Sex Game

July 6, 2018 No Comments

The Sacred Sex Game is designed for people who want to experience deeper love, greater communication, and celebrate a healthy relationship with themselves and each other. This game creates an opportunity to help open your hearts, and connect in a fun and intimate way. As ...

The Path To Sexual Empowerment

June 21, 2018 No Comments

What if, instead of feeling fear, guilt, ignorance and shame about our sexual and sensual pleasure, we understood it to be physically healthy, life-enriching, and supportive of our mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being? What if we were able to experience pleasure as an internal compass ...

What a Wet Vagina Says about Her Desire

June 15, 2018 No Comments

Nothing, it tells you not-a-thing. You cannot make any assumptions about what a woman wants based on the degree to which her vagina lubricates. You may be thinking, “What? How can that be? I always thought, if she’s wet she wants it, if she ...

Pleasure After Trauma

June 8, 2018 No Comments

One of the primary reasons many people seek out Tantra is to help heal and overcome sexual trauma. You can simply google the words “sexual trauma” to discover how prevalent this issue is. In fact, the statistics for sexual trauma are staggering. The most recent ...

The #1 Key For Expanding Pleasure!

May 31, 2018 No Comments

When I began studying and practicing Tantra, my mentor spoke often about “living in a state of bliss”. At the time I would get images in my mind of floating through my day- to- day life filled with golden light, hearing angels singing, and seeing ...

Inside, Outside, Same

May 24, 2018 No Comments

I have always been a wanderer. I’m a person who desires knowledge of things on the fringe, who seeks out new experiences and new places, and who is always devouring new concepts and ways of being. In fact, this desire to acquire new knowledge is ...