Tantra Articles + Videos

Tantra for delayed ejaculation

July 7, 2017 No Comments

Delayed Ejaculation, also called retarded ejaculation, is the third most common sexual dysfunction in men. Although it is nowhere near as prevalent as premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction, it affects as many as 8% of men in recent studies. There are a number of physiological …

Tantra and Porn, can they be friends?

June 30, 2017 2 Comments

Pornography is a topic of much debate. Some say it is degrading to women and fosters unhealthy sexual habits. Other people say that demonizing porn also demonizes the sex workers who choose to work in porn, and stigmatizes work that they may find empowering and ...

What Tantra is NOT, and why it’s important to distinguish

June 23, 2017 1 Comment

Much like modern day Yoga practice, Tantra is spreading like wildfire across mainstream America, and it’s extremely important for those of us who identify as ‘Tantra practitioners’ to qualify the style of Tantra we are teaching, in order to maintain clarity in the industry. It ...

7 Oral Sex Tips for Yoni Lovers

June 9, 2017 No Comments

For many people, oral sex can be a deeply intimate experience. Before my training in Tantra, I usually felt somewhat embarrassed and shameful about receiving oral sex. And I was absolutely mortified at the thought of giving any feedback to my partner about what they ...

6 Tips for Anal Pleasure!

June 2, 2017 3 Comments

Question ~ Dear Devi, I’ve always fantasized about anal sex. My boyfriend is interested, but we both feel nervous. What’s the deal with anal? Why is it both enticing and scary? And how do we ease into it so that we can both get comfortable? ...

3 Tips for Easy Sexual Communication

May 26, 2017 No Comments

Does the thought of telling your partner what you want in bed strike fear into your heart? Do you hold back from expressing your desires for fear of hurting their feelings, or perhaps being rejected? The thought of verbally communicating during sex can be terrifying ...

The True Purpose of Sex is Transcendence!

May 19, 2017 No Comments

I often cry after a really great orgasm. My heart feels blown open by the powerful release of pleasure, and any emotional residue I have been carrying up until that point is washed away by the flood of bliss which infuses my mind and body. ...

Jade Ball “Yoni Yoga” for Better Orgasms!

May 12, 2017 No Comments

There’s been quite a bit of controversy surrounding jade ball and jade egg practices since Gwyneth Paltrow began promoting them on her website. But what are Jade Egg practices, and why the heck would you want to put stones in your vagina? Traditionally known as ...

Does Semen Cause Vaginal Odor?

May 5, 2017 77 Comments

Many vagina owners don’t realize that semen can be the cause of unpleasant smells from their lady bits, but there are actually a few reasons a man’s “elixir” may cause your yoni some distress. Like anything that contains proteins, the smell of semen changes when ...

What Gets in the Way of Your Pleasure? Top 3 Blocks to Bliss!

April 7, 2017 No Comments

One of my absolute favorite things to teach people about are the over 11 different kinds of female orgasm. I love sharing this information not so that we as women can feel inadequate or broken in anyway if we are not experiencing all of these ...

The Over 8 Kinds of Orgasm for Men

March 17, 2017 No Comments

I love men and I particularly love male energy. I find male energy to not only be attractive, but balancing and nourishing to my body, mind and spirit. Particularly male orgasm and sexual energy. I deeply believe that one of the purposes of human sexual ...

Sexology ~ The Movie

March 10, 2017 No Comments

In 2013 I received an email from Catherine Oxenberg asking if I would be interested in participating in an upcoming documentary about female sexual pleasure and awakening orgasmic potential. I said, “uh gee, let me think…ummm Hell Yeah!” I flew to California and spent the ...

How Often Should Tantric Men Ejaculate?

March 10, 2017 11 Comments

Once a man has started to practice Tantric semen retention with proper guidance and methods, the process of separating orgasm from ejaculation usually takes about 4-8 weeks, depending on his age and previous ejaculation frequency. Once he has successfully separated those two functions in the ...

Tantric Remedies for Excess Sexual Chi

February 17, 2017 No Comments

Most of the work we do in tantra focuses on building and enriching our sexual chi. But sometimes our Tantra practices can generate an excess of energy, and we need to find ways to alleviate that “excess chi” in order to regain balance. Excess ...

Why Your Tantra Practice Is Vital To The Planet!

February 10, 2017 No Comments

There is a lot of unrest on this planet right now, and a lot of us with open hearts and deep empathy may feel a bit of hopelessness and despair at the overwhelming amount of pain and conflict happening on a global scale. There may ...